The Head of Lyceum Schools in Abeokuta, Ogun State, Mrs. Moureen Ola-Williams, advised parents and guardians to monitor their children’s activities on social media and the internet, along with being cautious about strangers and neighbors. This guidance aims to protect children from potential risks like sexual abuse.
She made these remarks in light of the prevalent cases of sexual abuse observed in both private and public schools, where individuals such as teachers, school staff, and even community members were found guilty of sexually assaulting children. Ola-Williams emphasized this during the 12th Anniversary and Graduation Ceremony of the school, themed “Global Reach Within Local Realities,” held at the Olusegun Obasanjo Presidential Library in Abeokuta, the capital of Ogun State. She stressed the importance of parents and guardians closely monitoring their children’s online activities.
She advised parents to be vigilant about the electronic devices their children use, such as smartphones, laptops, and iPads, to prevent them from accessing sites that could expose them to sexual abuse and danger. Additionally, the school’s head recommended that parents only allow their children access to smartphones and computers for educational purposes or research, ensuring constant monitoring during these activities.
She assured that such abuse would not occur in her schools as every child is closely supervised, respected, and educated on understanding their bodies’ sensitive areas and defending themselves against sexual abuse. She also advised parents to be cautious about their children’s friends, emphasizing the importance of teaching children about safeguarding policies, their bodies, and how to recognize potential threats. Children should avoid associating with strangers or negative groups and should be encouraged to seek solace in faith.
“We are in a generation where kids are exposed to numerous technologies, especially the internet, phones, and social media. It all begins at home. What role are you playing as a parent, as a mother or father? If you expose these children to social media and think they won’t face abuse or danger, you’re mistaken.”
“It’s our 12th Anniversary and Graduation valedictory service. We operate a Montessori where every child is respected, valued, and appreciated. Such abuse has never occurred and will not be tolerated here at Lyceum Schools.”
“We frowned against it(sexual abuse) and we are always on the watch, our teacher are child friendly teachers and well trained and as a teacher you not just there to impact academic knowledge on them stand as a teacher but as their parents. We talked to our kids, we trained the, they need to protect themselves against abuse.” Ola-Williams added.
